Dear High School Senior,
Congratulations you are almost finished with the first chapter of your life - High School. It has been 4 years of getting up early, daily homework struggles, learning nonstop, and limited responsibility. Now, it is time to launch into the next chapter, whether that means going to college, starting a business (or continuing one), or finding something in the workforce to launch your career. We come out of high school one of two people - the ones that have no care in the world and are focused mostly on having a good time, or the ones that have so much anxiety about what the future holds.
When you are 18 years old you have unlimited options. 10 to 20 years from now you still have those choices, but know that your actions will continue to affect the types of options you have. Be mindful of the road you go down. Do not follow the status quo. Think about not only the now but the 5 years from now and never stop questioning everything. Not one person has all the answers, not even your parents. We are all imperfect people in a world that is ever-evolving, growing, and changing. Those experiences are going to create the individual you are going to become - do good and be good all at the same time.
Stepping into this new life chapter there are three things that I want to share with you that I learned later in my adult life. Stop comparing yourself to everyone that you meet. We are struggling with something - no matter how put together or smart they may seem, that social media picture lifestyle isn't reality. Find a career that makes you happy and excited to go to work every day, but if that excitement starts to fad it is okay to find a new passion. Relationships are hard. Maintaining long-distance and nearby friends, finding time for your significant other, or juggling family holidays while life continues to spin around you. Make time for all those people that are important to you. This does not mean you need to call everyone once a week or have dinner with people every night. It can be as simple as a quick text, a reaction on social media, or sending a photo/gift that reminded you of them. Keep relationships that matter as they are so important in your growth.
Lastly, surround yourself with people that make you grow, that makes you question life, and brings you to a better you. These are people that are mentors and will change how you think and make changes for the better.
Sincerely,
The Cummings-Feola Family Foundation
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